Have you ever said yes to something and later realized it was huge mistake? Or better yet, you became unimaginably overwhelmed because you said yes. One of my favorite quotes from The Best Yes, which happens to be on page 5, says “We must not confuse the command to love with the disease to please.” Let me tell you, when I read this I immediately felt a weight lifted. Often times we say yes because we want to show love, show that we care, or show that we are supportive. But the problem is the feeling of regret overshadows the good deed we committed ourselves to. We can’t really find the time to do what we promised or it’s a bit more than we can chew. Even worse, now I have to neglect things that are important to me and my family to make sure I get this done…all out of love. The Best Yes is a handbook for those of us who stand outside of the circle of “No”.
Lysa Terkeurst puts it all on the table and scripturally teaches how saying yes is just as harmful as saying no. She puts things into perspective and encourages how to determine what The Best Yes is for you. She shares personal stories which brings a sense of intimacy to the reader. I felt like she was my bff! She is witty, insightful and on point. This is a must read for anyone who innately has the “disease to please”. Ask God for wisdom and always remember there are consequences to every “Yes”.